Right after I got engaged, my sister gave me a book called, "365 Ways to Kiss Your Love." Now before you quit reading this post, let me assure you that they are all very appropriate ideas.
Last year, I picked 14 of my favorites and did one each day of February until Valentine's Day.
I had a lot of fun and looked forward to kissing my husband each day in a unique way. It definitely spiced up our marriage! Because I don't know about all you married folks (and parents, too!) out there, but it's easy to let the romance die unless you work for it! And that includes planning time for romance. You could make the first move by presenting your partner with a gift; something thoughtful like a Nautica cologne that they can also use every day can be a great pick. Don't worry if they don't have a gift for you. Start with that, and then communicate to them about your ideas to stir up the romance.
I am not talking about just kissing, but also trying out other playful, sensual, and sexual activities with your partner to maintain the romance. For instance, weekend dates, giving gifts to each other or sending flowers, experimenting with sex, getting a porn site subscription (by exploring porn directories like x3guide), and watching it together to get into the mood, etc. These ideas can keep you both desiring each other's company.
For all those love birds who don't feel the spark anymore, I would suggest they try including some fun elements like adult toys in their lovemaking. It could seem childish to many, but finding ways to keep the love alive is really important. Moreover, when there tend to be so many cheap adult toys available in the market, it wouldn't even cost high to try some of them. Those who find it interesting can add more of them to spruce up the flame with every session of lovemaking.
Not to forget, there are multiple options to choose from when it comes to sexual products. For instance, you can explore subtle items like pheromones perfume, scented candles, lingeries, etc., or you can go bold and experiment with sex toys like vibrators, handcuffs, a bondage kit, realistic sex dolls, and more. The motto should be to keep the warmth alive, no matter what it takes to achieve it.
And while anyone tries all of these, kissing should still be the priority. As someone has rightly pointed out, all love starts with a kiss. That being the case, here are the 14 Days of Kissing Your Love in case you'd like to incorporate them into your Valentine's Day celebrations this year.
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Happy Kissing!
xo,
Mel
P.S. If you need some fun, creative date ideas, this is your place!
^top photo credit Bows n Ties Photo
Maria Avery says
What a good idea! This will completely surprise my husband by doing this.